I'm one of those people that like to notice people and their expressions as they talk. The motions they make with their hands as if telling a story through the movement. Watching as they tell truths and untruths. Most people don't know that they have " what some experts on human behavior call a TELL. When you are not being exactly honest, there is something that you do, that you don't even realize you do. When I use to work with the E-Z Shop many years ago they brought in a professional on this subject. Because us managers hired our own employees. So we had to have a class in the behavior of people that lied. We also journeyed into signs to look for if an employee was stealing. The things that I learned in that class were amazing, and I have since found a real interest in it.
There is now a TV program called "" Lie to me "" which deals with some of the same things.
I have been watching people for years and although not near to being expert, I can tell when some people are being sincere or just saying what they think is their obligation to say. you'd be surprised at the insincerity of most people. In your job place, church, and even in the family environment. And you know I don't think that it really takes much to know, because even when we don't look for the signs consciously, I believe that our unconscious minds see it. That why experts tell us that if a woman strongly thinks that her husband is running around on her, that most likely he is. It's because her unconscious mind already knows, by the 'Tells' on his face when he denies any wrong doing.
I don't know why I'm even writing this. lol. Except I saw it yesterday as I met an acquaintance from our church, at the grocery store meat isle. She was saying all the right things. Well, you know! I think we have all experienced this whether we watch for it or not.
Here's an idea, don't say it, if you don't mean it. lol
God bless
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